Kunyahs vs. Names

Bismillah walHamdulillah

Kunyahs are the way to go. It’s more respectable, and I feel that it leads to greater hayaa’ (you shouldn’t enjoy brothers calling you by your name…)

ex of kunyah: Umm Kawthar, Abu Musa

If you cannot do that for some reason, then at least, initials:

sister AB.

brother CD